Friday, November 23, 2012

"Epic" Turkey Day

Belated and loving Thanksgiving wishes to my family and friends. It seems that we had an "epic" day, and for that I am eternally grateful. Of course with our FiveGrandLoves in the house, how can there be anything but cheer? 

It was tough to keep the FabFour older kids at the table for hours on end. They were allowed to hit the basement playroom to do their thing, 'tween courses. But when they rejoined us, the noise level peaked. Even our precious Baby Lyla found out, at her very first Turkey Day, that she must gurgle very loudly, in order to compete with this bunch. Problem is, this hostess didn't get a chance to cuddle her much, especially with her sibs and cousins wanting much deserved attention




When everyone was seated and awaiting the first course, I asked the children to start a chain of thanks 'round the table. It was so sweet. We all know!

'Twas a pleasure to welcome Todd and Yvonne, our favorite newlyweds.


Needless to say, there was a glaring omission from our family circle. I'd said to Mom, just prior to her falling ill, 
"You have to stay healthy, 'cause the entire family is coming for the holiday." 
It wasn't meant to be, and neither Joe nor I wanted to be the first to mention her. Chloe sat to my left, and as we began dining, she said, 
"G'ma, did Big Nanny live a really long time." 
"She did, Honey; would you like to talk about Big Nan?"
"Yes!"
"Oh, thank you, Chloe; that would be nice." 
At the same time, at the opposite end of the table, I heard Kelly telling Gavin, 
"She would be sitting right where you are, today!" 
I proceeded to mention what the priest had said at her service... yes, as much as she is missed, we need to celebrate her long and loving life... and we shall continue to do so. 

Later on, Joe came up from picking up the playroom to tell me,
 "Nick, the kids left a note for us, downstairs."
We are blessed.

It was a beautiful day. I love Thanksgiving. Food takes center stage and presents are non-existent. Rather, it's about the presence of those we hold in our hearts.
 Love Grows. Giving Thanks.
♥♥♥♥